9 Ways A Pisces Will Be The Most Confusing Person You’ll EVER Meet

 

 

You *think* you know them, but you have no idea.

Pisces is the little sibling of the zodiac family. Like younger siblings in every family, they can feel underappreciated and misunderstood. They are the most fluidic and dynamic personalities around.

This constant diversity of energy and intention makes it hard for them to build strong, long lasting relationships. They are socially nomadic as well so they frequently aren’t around long enough for anyone to pierce through enigmatic aura.

Below, we’ve dissected the Pisces and explained some of their more baffling traits. Remember that we are talking about generalities in personality here, so these are more guideline than anything else. If nothing else, it will provide a fresh perspective and those are always helpful in connecting with someone.

1. Empathy is a driving force.

 

Pisces are gifted with stronger empathetic reactions than the other signs. They can clearly tune into the deepest and most subtle parts of even a stranger’s mind state. This heightened sense gives them an additional social level to experience and interact with others.

The strength of the reflected emotions can be viewed as the Pisces’ real emotions. This can easily cause confusion or give the appearance of mood swings.

2. They can be oversensitive.

Not just with their emotions or feelings, but their pride and confidence can be shattered by careless words spoken by a friend or loved one. They have no defense mechanisms that dull them or protect them from their own sense’s. Their survival method takes a commitment few possess.

They turn the other cheek, and call attention to your pain or root problem for this conflict. They use nonviolence, empathy, and compassion to the fullest. When someone carelessly just hurts them, they have no way to handle it but suffer. Choose your words carefully around Pisces.

3. You will be shocked at the range of their personality.

 

If you get to see Pisces in different environments, you will see radically different versions of them every time. They aren’t being superficial; they effortlessly absorb and reflect their surroundings. They can be the life of the party, slinging jokes, making drinks, flirting and recalling fabulous stories. They can be the disciplinarian boss, complete with finger wagging and critical statements.

It takes a lot of energy to be a constant mirror for the people around them. If they come home after a party or long day at work, they may appear to be short-tempered and not very social. When they have spent that much internal energy, give them an hour or so by themselves to recuperate. Pisces bounce back from fatigue and negativity really well.

4. They are often easy to meet, but hard to know.

The constant, dynamic flow of their personal energy makes them really contradictory on certain levels. This can make it hard for them to reach out to a stranger where the person reciprocates the connection. They are wary of potential manipulators and people that would try to profit from their unique spiritual abilities.

People will often only call on a Pisces because they had a bad day or event happen to them. While they are willing to help, they are more than this one ability and crave people who acknowledge them as individuals.

If you want to get to know a Pisces, be genuine from the first moment; they can sense dishonesty. Do your best to not be too serious around them. The first few times you meet, don’t make a scene of it, but go out of your way to try and pierce the social energies surrounding them. Talk about them and how they have been.

5. They are extremely accepting of others.

This is the most likely inclination of Pisces to backfire. Their loving and compassionate attitudes can leave them a little naïve or blind to the truth. When taking steps to protect your Pisces, don’t phrase it like they are wrong and you are right. Don’t get bogged down into whether or not the person is innocent or not.

You can’t win that argument. To avoid eternal verbal jousting, phrase it as you are uncomfortable and want to take these safety measures. Explain that it doesn’t matter how “good” the person is, it can’t be proven either way. As their friend you are asking that they honor your wishes.

6. Reality and fantasy bleed into each other at times.

The planets of emotions and illusions (Jupiter and Neptune, respectively) affected their development. Gifted artists, the intents of their ruling planets, strengthen their abilities and empower their imagination. This can be used to help them achieve the unachievable. They aren’t held down by conventional or self-conscious thinking.

7. Their energy levels are a reflection of their environment.

 

It isn’t uncommon to see a completely bedraggled, exhausted Pisces lay down for twenty minutes and get up intensely energized. They have a large capacity for absorbing the energy in a room or coming off people. They can even make their own if left alone for a moment.

Watch out, though. These second and third winds aren’t always guaranteed and you may see them crash very quickly. Don’t fret; they’ll be fine but point out their fatigue as they might understand it yet. Get them food and water or they’ll start snapping at the people around them. They aren’t often exhausted and they don’t handle it well.

8. They are always looking for new experiences and adventures.

Their social life looks like that of a nomadic people. They learn to adapt in the environment they find themselves in. They don’t set down deep roots, preferring to move around and chase down life. They live for the unknown. They like having to think on their feet and with limited resources. They appreciate the difference between surviving and thriving.

If your better half is a Pisces, you’re going to need to be extremely flexible with your lifestyle. If you don’t accompany them on their adventures, you will be viewed as a ball and chain. They will feel stressed and trapped. They want to be with you but they can’t be static for long. If you can’t adapt, they will leave you, because they can’t slow down.

9. They are the last sign.

 

They are the twelfth and last symbol of the zodiac’s circle. They are the youngest astrologically than all the other signs; that’s one of the reasons they are so much more vibrant than their family. Their place on the cycle means that most signs feel the urge to look after their little sibling. All the preceding signs have bestowed aspects of themselves and lessons on Pisces.

Can We Stop with the Disgusting and Disturbing Coffee Enemas Already? Please.

 

 

For years, coffee enemas have been thought of as a popular-yet-strange alternative “cure” to, well, just about everything. But in January 2018, Gwyneth Paltrow published a report that renewed people’s interest in the technique; it was a “detox guide” recommending a device for undergoing the procedure at home. Sounds interesting, right? Which brings us to this: is it actually effective or safe to give yourself a coffee enema? Short answer: no. Read on below.

$5 Deal of the Day! Shameless Tinder Hopefuls Send Money in Droves to Woman Charging to Talk

 

 

Hey ladies, don’t you wish you had $1 every time a guy you didn’t like talked to you? Chances are, you’d be rich by now. But instead of wishing, one Babe staff writer went ahead and made it happen. After being inspired by another woman’s experiment, Caroline Phinney decided to use Tinder to see how much money she could get out of her matches.

The Best Three Types of Partners (According To The Zodiac Signs)

 

 

The Zodiac has already done the heavy lifting for you. Perhaps some of you are going to say, “The stars and planets don’t determine my destiny,” and you are probably right. But, the Zodiac does a good job of categorizing humanity into some manageable groups. There are four broad categories based around the symbols of the elements of the universe; Air (Mind), Earth (Body), Fire (Spirit) and Water (Mutable). 

THE BEST THREE TYPES OF PARTNERS (ACCORDING TO THE ZODIAC SIGNS)

AIR

Air is necessary for life, but is also unseen and unpredictable. Air signs are thinkers. They spend time thinking deeply about issues or problems. You will often find them in professions that require intense mental focus and creativity. Like the upper atmosphere, they float above it all and observe from a vantage point where they can see problems clearly. While this can be freeing mentally, it can also lead to a person being somewhat out of touch with daily reality.
If you are really into intellectual pursuits and/or deeply creative endeavors and want a partner who can join you in deep thought about complex issues, then an air sign is definitely a good match for you. You can discuss the deeper mysteries of the universe over coffee or work quietly next to each other without disturbing each other too much, as you both are lost in your own mental worlds.

EARTH

The earth is stable and changes very, very slowly. Earth signs like to set down roots and have established consistent routines. Earth signs are….wait for it….down to earth. They are relaxed and grounded and provide a firm foundation to build a life on. These folks are dependable and reliable. When you need them, they will be there for you. Just don’t ask or expect them to change. They resist change like a mountain. Earth signs are like your body. It requires homeostasis to survive and resists changes actively as anyone who has tried to lose weight can attest. Earth signs are defined by their routines: wake up, go to the gym, go to work, go home, go to sleep, repeat.
If you need someone who is stable with an established routine who you can build a life and family with, then an earth sign would be best for you. Earth signs are caring and nurturing in the same way a farmer nurtures his/her crops. They will feed your physical and emotional needs daily and give you plenty of light to grow.

FIRE

Fire signs are always on the move. Fire signs are passionate with their feelings, burning brightly with energy. Their spirits are restless and spend a lot of time searching and exploring. It is no coincidence that most religions incorporate fire into stories and symbolism. The burning bush, the eternal flame, the sun, the burning heart or a fiery punishment. Their passion in their beliefs define them, whether they belong to an established religion or more of a mystic independent of established religious beliefs. They burn bright but sometimes flame out and need to be reignited.
If you love burning passion in your life; if you love to see new places and do new things; if you love to travel, then a fire sign is probably the one for you. They will sweep you off your feet and ignite a burning desire in your heart. They will fan the flames of your spirit and take you on a journey of discovery.

WATER

Water signs are mutable and can take on the properties of the other three signs. They can be solid, dependable and unchanging like a glacier. They can burn hot like boiling water. Or, they can float above it all like a cloud. The only thing constant about a water sign is their constantly changing nature. They adapt to the partner they are with for short periods of time. Water signs need time on their own to revert back to their true nature. Water is deep and mysterious like the ocean, or can be light and refreshing like a shower.

What Turns You On The Most, Based On Your Zodiac Sign, Might Surprise You

 

 

We all have things that secretly turn us on — things that are outside the vanilla and stereotypically sexy behaviors that really arouse our imaginations, or just arouse us in general. I’m talking about the kinks that get you hot and bothered at the mere thought of them, and the hot buttons that always get you in the mood, instantly. While everyone’s personal sexual preferences are a little different, you can get hints about what turns you on based on your zodiac sign. This is good to know because it can be a great tool to help you explore your sexuality more fully, and offer some inspiration on how to really rock your partner’s world — that is, if you’re up for exploring their secret desires, too.
Some astrological kinks are more obvious, like proud Leo getting off on all the attention and exhibition, or fiery Scorpio being ready and willing to crack the whip in bed (both figuratively and literally). But there are a few surprises here, too (I’m looking at you Libra, you closet freak, you). As for what really gets the rest of the signs going? Well, read on to find out.

Aries (March 21 To April 19): Quickies In Public

Aries gals are an adventurous and spontaneous group — and that is especially true when it comes to sex. Nothing turns them on more than a daring quickie whenever or wherever the mood strikes them.

Taurus (April 20 To May 20): Erotic Massage

For Taurus, the best and hottest sex is when it’s a sensual experience from head to toe. They want to luxuriate in touch and taste and get lost in sensation. Erotic massage ticks all their boxes, if ya know that I’m sayin’.

Gemini (May 21 To June 20): Dirty Talk

In all areas of their lives, Gemini are passionate about communication, so it just follows that words would play a powerful role in the bedroom as well. If you want to turn on the Twins, just whisper creative and filthy nothings in their ear.

Cancer (June 21 To July 22): Passionate Kissing

Do you remember when you used to make out for hours, just slow and passionate kiss after kiss until you think you might explode? Well, Cancer gals definitely do. Nothing turns this sign on more than physical closeness, touching, and making out. So, if you want to drive a Cancer wild, you better pucker up.

Leo (July 23 To Aug. 22): Exhibitionism

While Aries tends to get off on the risk of quickies in public but doesn’t actually want to get caught, Leo wants all eyes on them. They love the feeling of admiring eyes sweeping over their bodies when they’re dressed provocatively. And if they’re really willing to take things to the next level, sex clubs offer the chance for them to potentially star in their very own erotic show.

Virgo (Aug. 23 To Sep. 22): Erotic Fiction

For intellectual Virgo, their biggest erogenous zone is definitely their brain. Nothing they can see will ever fully live up to what is playing in the theater of their minds, so erotic fiction is irresistible. For those with Virgo partners, try reading erotic short stories to one another until they’re dying to act out their imaginations IRL.

Libra (Sep. 23 To Oct. 22): Dom And Sub Games

In most areas of their lives, The Scales are always seeking balance, except in the bedroom where playing with power and throwing off balance becomes very erotic. These closet freaks love to play with domination and submission. While they may not prefer the role of dom, you can bet they are power bottoms.

Scorpio (Oct. 23 To Nov. 21): BDSM

There’s no surprise that the most sexual of all the signs likes to take their bedroom play to the extreme. Spanking and bondage are most definitely on the menu.

Sagittarius (Nov. 22 To Dec. 21): Threesomes

Sag gals don’t take life too seriously. They love to laugh and keep things light and fun. This is true in their sex lives as well. While they can definitely be passionate and focused on their partner, they wouldn’t mind throwing a few more participants in the mix. For fickle Sag, multiple partners is an ideal sexual situation.

Capricorn (Dec. 22 To Jan. 19): Role Play

It can sometimes be hard for practical and displaced Capricorns to break out of their shells, which is why role play is so erotic for them. By embodying a new character, they can shed all their inhibitions and really explore their deepest and most imaginative desires.

Aquarius (Jan. 20 To Feb. 18): Sex Toys

Aquarius’ planetary ruler is Uranus. Wait, before you just assume I’m going to make a bad joke here, let me explain. Uranus is the ruler of technology, which in the case of the bedroom means lots and lots of sex toys. Yep, having a full arsenal of sex toys to play with and to share with friends really gets them — wait for it — buzzing. (I couldn’t pass up all the bad jokes, I’m only human!)

Pisces (Feb. 19 To March 20): Tantric Sex

Nothing drives a romantic Pisces more wild in bed like really feeling connected to another person. They crave understanding and spiritual connection, so tantric sex (with its slow and harmonic movement) is hot, hot, hot to these sexy little fish.

The 3 Zodiac Signs That Get Over A Breakup Quickly Will Inspire You To Move On

 

 

All signs can commiserate over what it’s like to go through a bad breakup. You whine, you pine. You eat an entire large pizza by yourself, in bed, or you manage to subsist on bread and water for days. For the zodiac signs that get over a breakup quickly, it doesn’t necessarily mean that moving on is easier. In fact, condensing all of that processing into a few days and weeks instead of a month can make the experience more painful. It’s a bit like ripping off a bandaid, taking off all of the hair on your arm with it. The pain is still going to be there, it’s just a matter of how much you can stand at once.
All that being said, there’s something really wonderful about moving on. After a breakup, these signs are eager to get to the regenerative period of new, rapid growth. They know that moving on is a decision that is entirely up to them, and when they embrace the change that comes from the end of a new relationship, that’s definitely something worth admiring. Even if their methods for getting over heartbreak are a bit questionable, we can still applaud their enthusiasm for a clean ending.

1. Aries (March 21 To April 19)

Aries dives head first into what others would flinch away from. The first week after a breakup, they do everything that most of us would take a month to accomplish. They show up banging on their ex’s door at midnight. They hate-post. They wallow. They flirt with a co-worker. They have sex with said co-worker. They get fired. They complain to all of their friends. And then, just as quickly as their flurry of post-breakup activity started, it’s over. They have a new relationship, and they’ve gotten a new job, too. Way to land on your feet, Aries. If only we could all be like you.

2. Sagittarius (Nov. 22 To Dec. 21)

Sagittarius is the sign most likely to completely up and leave town after a breakup, making moving on that much easier. They literally move on, and they don’t leave a forwarding address. Where other signs might find the sudden upheaval of a whole life rather unsettling, Sagittarius actively thrives on being in a state of transition. They are able to see temporary stressors as adventures, and they don’t like to spend a lot of time wallowing or waiting for anyone from their past to come back. And as soon as they’ve set their sights on a new target, they’ll forget about their ex completely. Moving on never looked quite so easy as it does for a Sagittarius.

3. Aquarius (Jan. 20 To Feb. 18)

Moving on for Aquarius isn’t as easy as their cool demeanor would suggest, but for the zodiac’s visionary, it’s important to stay focused on the future. That means that when getting over a breakup, they find things to look forward to: new projects, trips, and quality time with friends. As a sign that plays well by themselves, they might even enjoy reconnecting with their solitude after being so tangled up in somebody else. They might even start to think that they prefer being single, as it frees up their intellectual capacities and leaves them more time to dedicate to their far-flung ideals.
There’s always a danger with Aquarius that they aren’t being completely honest with themselves about their emotions. This is a sign that will rationalize their way out of every single feeling, including anger and depression, which can lead to resentment long term. So even though an Aquarius moves on from a relationship quickly, the effects of the breakup linger on. I wish them luck, as I do every sign who’s currently weathering a breakup. It does get better from here.

Where Each Zodiac Sign Is Destined To Live

 

 

It might surprise you to know that countries and cities have their own horoscope. Not as crazy as it sounds, considering that a horoscope is born from a precise moment in time, in a particular location. The “birth” of a country or city is calculated from the moment of discovery, first settlement or when a declaration of independence is signed.
Astrologers can compare the horoscope of an individual with the horoscope of a location, interpreting the planetary interactions as either favourable or challenging. How that particular city vibes with you, depends on the cosmic interplay between both charts.
Check out your zodiac sign below to find the city that is best suited to you — and start packing!

ARIES — New York

Your career has the potential to thrive in the Big Apple! Cash flows more smoothly, streaming in from unusual sources. Health is fortified in this locale, despite the lack of blue skies. Communication will be an important element in your partnerships and the cornerstone from which any romantic liaisons are built upon. The fast-paced, action-orientated vibe of New York suits energetic Aries to a T.

TAURUS — Sydney

The land down under would throw you in the spotlight and support your professional path. Finances improve, bringing increased stability and profit. Earthy Taurus loves to be in nature and the great Aussie outdoors boosts your sense of well-being and vitality. Relationships step up to commit but you could meet someone special with a significant age gap.

GEMINI — San Francisco

Geminis are the master communicators of the zodiac. So it’s no surprise they would be drawn to Silicon Valley, the hub of high-tech industry and start-ups. If you are a computer nerd or the next social media star then your career could skyrocket in San Francisco! For Geminis looking for love, physical attraction amplifies tenfold. Even if you’re just stopping by, you could bump into the love of your life.

CANCER — Venice

It’s no coincidence that Cancer is a water sign and Venice, otherwise known as the City of Water, has Cancer as its Rising sign. You would feel a deep affinity here as if you have finally come home. People that you connect with in this romantic city would just “get you.” It’s not all hokum, with your head in the clouds though. The Moon’s connection to Mars gives you an extra pep in your step, helping you slay your goals. If moving here is not an option, a mini-vacay will recharge your batteries.

LEO — Paris

Blue-blooded Leos are given the royal treatment in Paris and that’s just the way you like it! The Sun rules both Paris’ and Leo’s horoscope, so there is an unspoken understanding that life in the City of Lights, offers nothing but the best. Any vocation or a new job that you take on will be met with success due to the powerful position of the Sun. Relationships could take an unconventional twist as romantic liaisons with unusual types captivate you.

VIRGO — Tokyo

You are a perfectionist Virgo. It’s what drives you to be the best you can be. Your refined sense of style is what makes this coupling a match made in heaven. Japanese culture is deeply entrenched in custom and etiquette. Here, you can excel at anything you put your hand to. Your cleverness is appreciated in this honorable city. Mars’ connection with Jupiter guarantees success born out of new advantageous associations. Embrace your inner Empress!

LIBRA — London

As the Sun culminates in London’s horoscope, your life direction becomes crystal clear. If you’ve been struggling to discover your purpose, you’ll find it here. London would put you on the map in terms of your career, so you shine like the star you are. Love looks set to blossom in this bustling town with plenty of opportunities to find “the one”. You enjoy increased popularity, with a plethora of female friends wanting to socialise and have fun with you.

SCORPIO — Amsterdam

Scorpios grasp the importance of physical intimacy and with Amsterdam’s Sun in your sexy sign, you can find your equal in a partner that wants to explore the depths of your soul, unravel life’s mysteries and strike the intense connection that you’ve always dreamt of. Both charts share a strong water element, bringing natural affinity and peace. Life in the “Venice of the North” could be positively transformational for you, Scorpio.

SAGITTARIUS — Honolulu

The abundance of fire in Honolulu’s horoscope resonates with your high octane energy, Saggey. As both charts share a strong fire element, any projects you’ve been struggling to get off the ground could finally take flight in this volcanic city. Mars boosts confidence and helps you find your mojo. Love takes an unusual twist, as the possibility of meeting an exotic soul mate from a distant land is likely. Book your next vacation in Honolulu and feel your spirits soar!

CAPRICORN — Monaco

Did you know that Capricorn is known amongst astrologers as the “sign of the millionaire”? Well, why are all my bills piling up, you ask? Like it or not, you have more ability to accumulate a fortune than most, and Monaco is just the city to encourage your inner billionaire to come out and play with royals, high flyers and celebrities. Capricorns are not above hard work which pays off in bucket loads in Monaco. A short trip to this decadent locale is all you need to gain an inspirational plan that gets the ball rolling.

AQUARIUS — Stockholm

Your social conscience is gratified in the city that promises to obliterate fossil fuel by 2040. Aquarius, you are highly intelligent and forward thinking. Here, in this progressive city, you would have a breakthrough that leads you to change your life or the lives of others, for the greater good. You wouldn’t be alone in your cause as you would attract an amazing partner to share your passion, along with a substantial financial reward to boot.

PISCES — Singapore

Although Singapore’s dynamic pace is a stark contrast to your usual dreamy demeanour, this city would get you moving and shaking like a boss, Pisces. They say opposites attract and this is true of a special someone that you could meet here. The partnership would bring positive balance, providing greater emotional security and a grounding influence that encourages you to become the best version of yourself.

These 3 Zodiac Signs Are Always Traveling, So Book A Trip With One Now

 

 

There are those of us who simply can’t quell their incessant need to travel. The promise of an upcoming trip is what helps them get out of bed in the morning. They go to sleep at night with thoughts of another world tucked beneath their eyelids. Their favorite part of being alive is getting to experience the tastes, smells, sounds, colors, and dreams of somewhere else. And who can blame them? If we don’t attempt to explore every nook and cranny of this big blue planet we call Earth, then aren’t we wasting our one shot at living? Some of us don’t plan to. In fact, there are certain zodiac signs who are always travelingwith all their heart, especially Sagittarius, Aries, and Aquarius.
These three zodiac signs hear the call to explore the world reverberating straight from their souls. Sitting still within familiar surroundings for the rest of their lives is completely out of the question. They need to be moving. If they aren’t learning something new, expanding their horizons, and enriching their memories with beauty, then what’s really the point of all this? And by “all this,” I mean life. It’s too short to waste time and it’s too brief to spend the entirety of it being afraid. There are simply far too many amazing things to see. Why wait?

Sagittarius: They Want To See The World

There’s no zodiac sign more taken with the concept of traveling than Sagittarius. These aren’t people who take the time to solidify their home base — to them, the whole world is their oyster. It’s simply up to them to explore it. Their souls move wherever the wind blows and they’ll gladly leave their fate in the hands of something larger than themselves. A Sagittarius wants life to be one long and exciting experience. What better way to ensure that than through travel?
If a Sagittarius doesn’t have the means or freedom to travel and take on the world, they’ll often become lethargic and bored with existence. They need spice, variety, and richness in order to feel truly satisfied.

Aries: They’re Always On The Move

An Aries doesn’t stop for anyone or anything. To them, time is not only money — it’s possibility. They’re on a mission to gather as many experiences under their belt as they can. They’re greatest competition? Themselves. If an Aries isn’t living up to their own standards, they’ll grow insecure and frustrated with life. Seeing as much of the world as they can is almost always on the top of their list.
An Aries lives for adrenaline rushes and pushing their soul to the edge. They’re rarely afraid of their own shadow and they’re always the first ones to jump at the opportunity to open their eyes to something strange, new, and beautiful. No matter how wild, challenging, or bizarre your travel idea may be, an Aries will always be game.

Aquarius: They Want To Become Better People

An Aquarius travels with the world in mind. They almost always have a vision for how much better they can be, how much better our entire planet can be. While most of us may entertain daydreams of humanist efforts, an Aquarius gets down to the knitty gritty and effects real change. However, before they can make an impact on the world, they must at first see it. An Aquarius is by no means ignorant of that fact.
When an Aquarius travels, they take note of every single detail and attempt to get to know each location as though they themselves are locals. They’re not superficial vacationers; they’re soul-searching revolutionaries, here to take their humanity to the next level.

Why Am I Single? My Zodiac Sign Has The Answer & It’s Scarily Accurate

 

 

 

When it comes to the reason (or reasons) you’re single — whether you want to be or not — your zodiac sign may be a lot more telling than you realize. Here are some possible explanations for your current solo status based on when you were born.

Pisces (February 19 To March 20)

When a Pisces loves, they love all the way. You’re a sensitive and honest sign, but you know when to take things slow as well. You might be single because your intuition is telling you to take some time with yourself. You’re great at believing in others, but maybe you need some time to take to believe in yourself again.

Aries (March 21 To April 19)

Hello, Aries! You’re direct and bold, and you know how to state what you want. You might be single because you’re looking for something particular, and you simply haven’t met your match yet. Or you might be single because your last partner was intimidated by your “let’s get to it” attitude. Either way, don’t settle for anyone who doesn’t understand your special brand of energy. Trust your gut. When the right person appears, you’ll recognize them.

Taurus (April 20 To May 20)

As a Taurus, you thrive on what you know — you love the familiar. Have you been single for a while? The simple fact that you’re used to your independence could be the reason you’re single. As always, there’s nothing wrong with riding solo, but ask yourself if you’re single because it feels comfortable, or if it’s because you really don’t want to be in a relationship right now.

Gemini (May 21 To June 20)

Geminis invest energy into relationships in many different ways, but you definitely look for partners who can understand what you’re feeling and thinking with ease. If you’re single and ready to mingle, maybe you just haven’t met the person who can handle your communicative energy yet. That’s OK! Take a breath and enjoy some time with your own thoughts. There are plenty of talkers out there, and you’ll find the right one, I promise.

Cancer (June 21 To July 22)

As a Cancer, you’ve had your mind set on a future with your special person for a long time. You probably want a serious relationship, and maybe even a family one day. You might be single because the dating pool around you isn’t always interested in committing to a long-term relationship upfront. Try to open your mind to dating more casually in the meantime. You might be surprised by how relationships can change over time.

Leo (July 23 To August 22)

As a Leo, you understand your self-worth. You know that you’re hot sh*t and you’re not afraid to show it. You are single not because you’re lacking in confidence, but because you want to be single — or, at least, you’re not willing to settle for any of the options around you. It’s fun to flirt and be admired by potential suitors, but you’ll know when you’re meet someone who deserves all that you have to offer.

Virgo (August 23 To September 22)

As a Virgo, you demand a lot of yourself. You know that you can be the best… at anything. The one thing you have to do to get there: put in the work. If you’re actively looking for a relationship, you might be single because you’re putting in too much work. If you’re constantly on the apps and sitting down for drinks with strangers after work, you might just be burned out. Or giving off an air of “I want this so bad.” Consider giving yourself a break so you can come back to the game stronger than ever.

Libra (September 23 To October 22)

You’re an agreeable and peaceful person, and you are usually looking for a companion who can match your grace. Libra, you might be single because you’re simply meeting the wrong people. If you find yourself on dates with rude, aggressive personalities, switch up where you’re meeting your potential matches. Or, take some time to enjoy some peace and quiet alone. Being single can be simple, and can allow you to take part in all of the social activities youwant to take part in.

Scorpio (October 23 To November 21)

As a Scorpio, I’m going to avoid our “sex-monster” reputations for a moment, because I’m a giant prude. I don’t think you’re single because you’re just looking for hot sex, though that might be the case. You might be single because — like me — you could be a commitment-phobe… until you become super obsessed with one amazing person. You also might be single because you’re having trouble trusting someone. Us Scorpios hate liars, so if you’ve been dinged in the past, you may just need to give yourself a little more time. Or be alone forever. Honestly, both are great options.

Sagittarius (November 22 To December 21)

As a Sagittarius, you love to lead. While there is sometimes a leader in a relationship, there should also be some balance between partners. Perhaps you’re single because you’re not quite ready to get on board with someone else’s plans just yet. You’re an explorer, so you need someone who’s willing to get out there and explore with you. Or, just do it on your own! Trust your instincts.

Capricorn (December 22 To January 19)

You’re a Capricorn, so you are undeniably reserved. This is a great quality to have when it comes to being modest and polite, but it might be tricky for you to open up to new people when dating. If you’re ready for something romantic, find a partner you feel comfortable expressing yourself to — and let them know that it might just take a little longer for you to get there. If you’re not ready for a relationship at all? Not a worry. You’ll get there, too.

Aquarius (January 20 To February 18)

If you’re an Aquarius, you might be single because you’re more focused on bettering the world these days. First of all, thank you for doing that! And second, don’t let your long-term goals stand in the way of a partnership if you meet someone you really like. You can be both in a relationship and focused on your future.