What You Constantly Apologize For (And Why You Should Stop), According To Your Zodiac

What You Constantly Apologize For (And Why You Should Stop), According To Your Zodiac
What You Constantly Apologize For (And Why You Should Stop), According To Your Zodiac

 

 

 

Apologizing is only human. We all have faults and we all make mistakes. However, don’t limit yourself and apologize just to apologize. Below is the reason you are constantly apologizing (and why you should stop), according to your Zodiac:

Aries

(March 21-April 19)

You constantly apologize for your overactive and overbearing mind. When you have a plan or want to go do something, you are very direct about your desires. However, never apologize for your love of adventure or your ambitious desire to explore.

Taurus

(April 20-May 20)

You constantly apologize for your quiet and observing nature. At times, your love of things and of simplicity keep you closed off. However, you should never apologize for taking your time to warm up.

Gemini

(May 21-June 20)

You constantly apologize for your spacey nature and your inability to focus on one thing. While at times you should work on being less flakey, your love of spontaneity and of fun are simply unmatched. Never apologize for chasing fun and following your own happiness.

Cancer

(June 21-July 22)

You are constantly apologizing for your moodiness and your love of privacy. Yes, you aren’t exactly an open book, but that isn’t a bad thing. Never apologize for taking a while to open up.

Leo

(July 23-August 24)

You constantly apologize for your bossy nature and Mr./Mrs. Know-It-All attitude. While you have a strong leadership personality, you should not constantly apologize for it. Be strong and be brave just being you.

Virgo

(August 23-September 22)

You constantly apologize for your boggling sense of humor. Sometimes you are too serious and other times you are all over the place. While you are still working on figuring out your sense of humor, never apologize for it.

Libra

(September 23-October 22)

You constantly apologize for the fact that you are so busy. You have such a large social circle and so many beloved friends that sometimes you do not have enough time for everyone. However, never apologize for your social life. Be lucky for your friends, you will make time for them eventually.

Scorpio

(October 23-November 21)

You constantly apologize for your varied range of emotions. Sometimes you are totally fine and then other moments you are frustrated, impatient, and nervous. While your body is constantly filled this electric energy, never feel insecure about your emotions.

Sagittarius

(November 22-December 21)

You constantly apologize for making everything into a joke. There are serious moments in life and sometimes you have trouble switching off your joking side. While it’s important to recognize when you need to be serious and mature, never lose sight of your playful nature.

Capricorn

(December 22-January 19)

You are not one to constantly apologize for something, but you do own up to your mistakes when you make them. You have pride and integrity and will own up to something that is your fault.

Aquarius

(January 20-February 18)

You are constantly apologizing for over explaining something. You love telling riddles or using your intellect to explain a story or problem solve an issue.  While, you never want to talk down to someone, never apologize for your bright and beautiful mind.

Pisces

(February 19-March 20)

You are constantly apologizing for going off into your own world. Sometimes your mind can cause you to drift away from reality. However, never apologize for figuring out your muse and falling deep into your creative outlets.

This Is Where Each Zodiac Sign Can Be Found At A Darty

This Is Where Each Zodiac Sign Can Be Found At A Darty
This Is Where Each Zodiac Sign Can Be Found At A Darty

 

 

 

Aries

At the door/front of lawn not letting anyone in until they’ve done a successful beer bong. Day drinking is serious business and an Aries knows this well.

Taurus

You’ll find them dominating the beer pong table. They play to win and talk serious shit.

Gemini

Can’t decide what to drink so they just kind of drink everything. Will be found near the bar.

Cancer

Making new friends in the bathroom line.

Leo

Dancing on the table.

Virgo

Teaching everyone the proper form for doing a jello shot.

Libra

Laughing at and judging all the drunk fucks.

Scorpio

Texting their crush “u up” at 11 a.m. at the back of the party.

Sagittarius

Wherever the trouble is.

Capricorn

Shocking everyone by doing the best keg stand.

Aquarius

The only one drinking craft beer. Will be found enjoying it on a lawn chair away from everyone else.

Pisces

Idk crying somewhere.

27 Things Every Virgo Does After A Breakup

27 Things Every Virgo Does After A Breakup
27 Things Every Virgo Does After A Breakup

 

 

 

 

It is almost Virgo season! In honor of the season, I think it’s relevant to talk about some things this sign does after a breakup. Anyone born under the sign of Virgo is said to be analytical and always searching for wisdom, but they also can be overthinking-self-sabotagers. Here are 27 things you may see a Virgo doing, post heartbreak:

1. Cut their hair

2. Spend a day in bed

3. Get their revenge body or atleast plan how they will get it

4. Stalk their ex on social media

5. Stalk all their exes on social media

6. Over analyze their self destructive behaviors so they can change them

7. Write about their pain and their freedom simultaneously

8. Reach out to old friends and relationships

9. Invest in some serious retail therapy

10. Die their hair a completely different color

11. Plan a vacation and spend hours looking at the destinations and Airbnb’s

12. Make a game plan about how to feel better

13. Replay every minuscule situation that brought them to this time in their lives

14. Discover healthy coping mechanisms while simultaneously using unhealthy ones

15. Become the masters of their own self sabotage

16. Have really high highs and really low lows

17. Map out how to live and have a better life

18. Glow up. Give themselves a makeover. New skin, new makeup, who dis

19. Struggle with the closure / lack of closure they were given when the relationship was ending

20. Bask in any and all positive attention they receive from others, even if it’s just the person giving them coffee in the morning – they don’t solely turn inward mid grieving process

21. Question who they really are

22. Try and attempt to find deep meaning in absolutely nothing

23. Go through a phase of ‘not giving a fuck’

24. Consider quitting their job or school

25. Not be afraid to speak the truth, even if it makes someone else look bad

26. Process to no end

27. Move the fuck on

How You Find Success Vs. How You Deal With Failure, According To Your Zodiac

How You Find Success Vs. How You Deal With Failure, According To Your Zodiac
How You Find Success Vs. How You Deal With Failure, According To Your Zodiac

 

 

 

Life comes with both successes and failures. The good and the bad. While we need failure in order to appreciate success, failure in itself still sucks. Read on to discover how you find success vs. how you deal with failure, according to your Zodiac:

Aries

(March 21-April 19)

How You Find Success: You find success by living your truth and excelling in your element. As an Aries, you find success when you are unapologetically yourself and you stay true to the things that inspire you. For you, success is unwavering support from others and a staunch belief in yourself.

How You Deal With Failure: As an Aries, you do not handle failure well. You are bold, competitive, and proud. Therefore, accepting failure isn’t always easy. Instead of getting all fired up, work to learn from your failures instead of taking them so personally.

Taurus

(April 20-May 20)

How You Find Success: You find success in the status and comfort of your life. To you, a successful person has a collection of beautiful and prized things. You find success in this presentation and the divine beauty of living a safe and cozy life.

How You Deal With Failure: As a Taurus, you can be incredibly stubborn and set in your ways. Failure often arises when you are unwilling to reach a compromise. At times, you deal with failure by closing yourself off even more. Failure can consume you, if you let it.

Gemini

(May 21-June 20)

How You Find Success: You find success in fun and fantastic stories. You define success by the memories you make and experiences you have. As a Gemini, you follow fun wherever it goes. Living a life full of fun, curiosity, and adventure is the greatest form of success in your book.

How You Deal With Failure: As a Gemini, you tend to look on the bright side and focus on opportunities for fun and happiness. When you are met with failure, you are usually not defeated. You constantly rebound and move forward with your life.

Cancer

(June 21-July 22)

How You Find Success: You find success in cultivating and nurturing the close relationships around you. While you are a bit private at first, you are one of the most loving signs in the Zodiac. You measure success in the love and depth you feel with those around you.

How You Deal With Failure: You do not deal with failure well. When you are met with failure, you tend to emotionally and physically close yourself off. As a Cancer, you get incredibly stuck in your own head. Your feelings become torn apart by failure as you tirelessly work to rediscover your emotional equilibrium.

Leo

(July 23-August 24)

How You Find Success: You find success in improving and boosting your leadership and self image. As a Leo, you are an innovative and creative leader. At times, you are bit of a know-it-all, but that’s only because you have the confidence and pride to back it up. You find success in having the knowledge that others value your opinion and the strength to know that your advice is worth following.

How You Deal With Failure: As a Leo, you don’t deal with failure well, but it also does not take you a long time to bounce back from failure. You endlessly believe in yourself, which manages to pull you through ups and downs.

Virgo

(August 23-September 22)

How You Find Success: You find success in using your skills to please others. You are a superstar and constantly impress others with your organization and dedication. While you aren’t necessarily a people pleaser, you find success in proving to others that you can get the job done. Your ability to meticulously plan and strategize brings you immense feelings of success once you accomplish whatever goal you set out for yourself.

How You Deal With Failure: As a Virgo, you out of all the Zodiac signs do not take failure well. Due to the fact so much of your planning is so carefully strategized, you fall apart when it falls apart. While there is no doubt you will pick yourself up, you are often very impacted by the onset of failure.

Libra

(September 23-October 22)

How You Find Success: For you, success is measured by how you make others feel and how they make you feel in return. As a Libra, you are not only incredibly friendly and warm, but you are charming as well. Success for you is built on the triumph of many friends and the unforgettable memories you make together.

How You Deal With Failure: As a Libra, you deal with failure the same way you deal with having many friends. You make it work. While not all moments of failure are easy to overcome, you have plenty of outlets in your life to try something new and reorient yourself.

Scorpio

(October 23-November 21)

How You Find Success: As a Scorpio, you find success in personal growth and emotional stability. You like to feel that you are constantly expanding your appreciation and understanding of the world and you also like to feel that your emotions are balanced and healthy. Success for you is living the most authentic and true life possible.

How You Deal With Failure: Failure can either rock you to your core or give you the boost that you need. As a Scorpio, you are an incredibly confusing creature. You can be all over the place or simply be cool and collected. For you, dealing with failure can be based by your mood and perspective.

Sagittarius

(November 22-December 21)

How You Find Success: You find success in the way that you make yourself and others feel. Success for you is living a life that is playful, fun, and light-hearted. In all that you do, you prioritize these sentiments. As a Sagittarius, you find success in adding joy and laughter to the lives of others.

How You Deal With Failure: Failure does not swallow you whole. As a Sagittarius, you have a forever young mindset. You aren’t afraid to laugh off a mistake or shake things off when they don’t go your way. Due to your ability to focus on the positives of life, failures don’t seem to suffocate your existence.

Capricorn

(December 22-January 19)

How You Find Success: You are driven by success. As a Capricorn, you find success in any area you can. Whether that be work, relationships, or outside activities, success is something you always are eager to acquire.

How You Deal With Failure: As a Capricorn, wealth and success are two of your most prized desires. When you are met with failure, it can be beyond hard for you to pick yourself back up as you do not experience it often. While your pursuit of success is endless, failure can set you back further than you would like to admit.

Aquarius

(January 20-February 18)

How You Find Success: As an Aquarius, you find success in the knowledge you acquire. Feeling like you have mastered something or understood something complex are the types of success you desire.

How You Deal With Failure: Your ambitions for knowledge and for growth prevent you from fearing failure. As an Aquarius, you perceive failure as yet another learning opportunity. You grow from your mistakes and use failure to your benefit.

Pisces

(February 19-March 20)

How You Find Success: You find success in living out the creative vision that you have set for yourself. As a Pisces, you are inspired by your own introspection and beliefs. You set goals for yourself and you find success in giving life to the ideas in your head.

How You Deal With Failure: You take failure very personally at times, because you perceive it as an attack on your abilities. While you creative mind will never let you be forever blocked by failure, you have moments when failure stunts your ability to move forward.

Is He A Good Guy? Here Are 3 Ways To Tell If He’s Genuine Or Faking It

Is He A Good Guy? Here Are 3 Ways To Tell If He’s Genuine Or Faking It
Is He A Good Guy? Here Are 3 Ways To Tell If He’s Genuine Or Faking It

 

 

The way things are right now in the dating world, it can be quite scary to think that your BF might be one of those fake nice guys. And yet it is a possibility, on that has happened to a lot of girls over the years heck you might be here because you’ve had this happened to you before. Good news for you is that no matter how slick these guys might be faking it can only go so far. There are numerous ways to tell how a man is pretending to be genuine towards your relationship. So ladies here are a few red flags that if your boy-toy shares, sorry to say to you, but he has to go.

1. Actions vs. Words.

This one might be hard to catch at first, but it usually doesn’t take that long. If someone is a certain way, they won’t have to tell you that they are. It will be their actions that will show you. However, if a person needs you to believe that they are something, then they will need the help of their dialect.

There is a lot that our body language, tone, and habits reveal about what kind of people we are. Take note of the “good” your man does on a daily basis, apparently, and compare it to his actions. Let’s talk examples; they say they are a one-woman guy but openly flirts when they can with whom they can and blaming it on their social or somewhat playful persona. Or, telling tales of their love and compaction but you see their rudeness to people that can’t fight back like maids, waiters or baristas, which leads us to our second point.

2. How Does He Treat Others?

You may have heard this one time and time again, but it’s not broken. A lot of the times such individuals will keep all of their focus on you and how they should act around you. However, in doing so, they tend to slip up every now and then. With you, there is a potential profit ahead so you and anyone one of the sort will see their compassion only.

If you doubt that you are dealing with a faker than you will have to take a look at how they treat the people around them. Generally how they interact with others. You can tell a lot if you just observe. And don’t try to justify their behavior with, “He loves me, so I’m special; That’s why!” argument because it will come back to bite you later down the line. Just look for unnecessary rudeness, smirk, and any general douchey behavior towards people that are in no position to push back.

3. General Vs. Individual.

Everyone is different and has an individuality to their preferences. Nothing new there, we learn that in grade school. However, there are a few general rules to being romantic that nice guys usually don’t get. On the other hand, a playboy will efficiently fulfill all of those public expectations that you might have from your partner as he’s been there quite a lot. So the occasional surprise rose, or B-day gift will be there from them however you won’t receive something too individual to you.

It is getting a bit confusing so let s try to explain. Chocolates, flowers, and hugs are basics that everyone follows, and of course, these gestures are adored universally for the most part. All girls love compliments and most love getting flowers and present. However, how meaningful is that preset? Is it just a watch that he thought would be a suitable present? Or was there a reason he chose to give that particular watch to you that means something to the both of you?

In essence, if you don’t have such meaningful moments in your relationships that cater to your distinct character that just means they don’t know you that well. And if you two have been together long, that is a very problematic conclusion to come to.
If you partner is sincere, they should be aware of what matters to you more than a cute dress or a grand gesture out in public. And if they can’t think of something like that…well you know what we are going to say already.

With the way, most people view morals and relationships today it is very easy to get heartbroken. Folks see being a playboy as cool and something to strive to be like. Quite odd that some man would choose to be in such a predicament. Nonetheless, some such individuals would gladly have empty affairs. Now, just because they want to doesn’t mean that you should be stuck in one too. Be observant and know what you are getting yourself into.

6 Cruelest Ways To Break Up With A Person

6 Cruelest Ways To Break Up With A Person
6 Cruelest Ways To Break Up With A Person

 

 

 

It would be safe to assume that a vast majority of the world’s population would agree with the point that breaking up with a person is never really easy or simple. There are so many factors that go into making a relationship work; and sometimes, things just aren’t meant to be. And when two people are just incompatible with one another, they are forced to break up no matter how in love they might be in their relationships.

Of course, there are some fairly decent and gentle ways for couples to break up. Often, these are the healthy kinds of breakups; the ones that offer the people involved with a sense of closure. However, there are also the cruel ways to break up with a person – the kinds of breakups that can potentially leave a person feeling damaged, scarred, and wounded for a long period of time. These are the traumatizing kinds of breakups; and no one ever really deserves to have to go through them.

You have to understand that it only takes a single bad breakup to forever taint a person’s approach to relationships and perspective on love. It can be very traumatizing to the point that it dramatically alters a person’s emotional and mental makeup. For some, it can be a trigger for episodes of depression, anxiety, and mistrust. A bad breakup can have such a toxic impact on a person to the point that they could develop some very negative and unhealthy relationship patterns and philosophies. That is why if you have experienced a very impactful breakup that was just downright cruel, you shouldn’t be afraid to seek help from other people to try to make sense of it all. Some victims of cruel breakups even go as far so as to seek therapy from licensed professionals.

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1. Ghosting

Ghosting is terrible because you are depriving your partner of any kind of closure. You just act as if the entire relationship never even took place. You leave without a sign. Not only will your partner have to deal with the backlash of being broken up with; they will be left with so many unanswered questions to the point that it’s going to be hard for them to trust another person ever again.

2. The Gradual Fade

The gradual fade is something that is just as cruel as ghosting. Yes, it’s subtle. But it’s still a very passive approach to a breakup. When you feel like there are problems in a relationship, bring them up. If you’re just gradually excluding yourself from the narrative, it doesn’t really solve anything between the two of you. There is no attempt at resolution.

3. Lying

If you’re going to break up with someone, at least be honest about it. Don’t patronize a person by lying to them. Acknowledge that they are mature human beings who are able to handle proper breakups. If they find out that you’re lying about the breakup, you end up depriving them of the real closure that they need.

4. Public Breakups

Don’t be so cruel so as to break up with a person in public. You should already know by now about the emotional torment that comes with enduring a breakup. And sometimes, it can be hard to keep these emotions in check in the moment. That’s why it’s always better to do these breakups in private.

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5. Cheating

If you want to break up with a person, break up with them. Confront them about your feelings and you disappointments. Don’t be cowardly by taking the easy way out. Don’t cheat on them to intentionally sabotage the relationship. On top of the breakup, cheating can add even more trauma to a person’s breakup experience.

6. Blindsiding

NEVER blindside a person with a breakup. This is not what they mean when they say that surprises are good for a relationship. You should always have the good sense to really build up to a breakup. Ease your way into it. Prepare your partner for it. Give them a chance to try to fix things or at the very least, let them brace themselves for it.

The 5 Secrets To Finding Success In A Marriage

The 5 Secrets To Finding Success In A Marriage
The 5 Secrets To Finding Success In A Marriage

 

 

 

There have been so many articles written about finding success in relationships in the past. But a lot of them tend to really overcomplicate things. That’s what’s going to make this particular article so different from the rest. It’s going to trim away the fat. It’s going to do away with all of the unnecessary things. It’s going to focus on the real core essentials of making a relationship work.

The Art of the Compromise

Relationships just aren’t all about getting what you can out of someone. It’s also about giving as much of yourself into something that is greater than you. If you find yourself in a position wherein you are giving so much of yourself and you feel cheated or undervalued, then maybe you are in an unequal relationship. The problem with being in an excessively unequal relationship is that it generates imbalance and animosity within the relationship.

You aren’t always going to be seeing eye to eye on everything in the relationship. You aren’t always going to be in agreement. You are going to have your fair share of differences, and you both need to be able to meet each other halfway. Both of you must learn the art of the compromise if you really want to establish equilibrium in your relationship. You need to always be willing to adjust for the sake of your partner and your relationship.

The Value of Effective Communication

There are very few problems in a relationship that can’t be fixed by effective and open communication. If the two of you are just purely unable to communicate with one another in an open and honest manner, then the relationship just isn’t built to last for the long-term. You always need to find a way to openly express your thoughts and feelings to one another in a consistent and open manner.

That means showing the willingness to have uncomfortable and difficult conversations with your partner; even if it means it would lead to eventual conflict. You can’t let your thoughts and feelings stay bottled up inside. When you see a problem in the relationship, you need to speak up so that your partner will know when it’s time to adjust.

The Wisdom in Picking Your Spots

Granted, after a marriage or when the two of you start to get really serious with one another, you will start to discover that you and your partner aren’t always going to jive after all. There will be moments wherein you will really dwell on your clashes and your differences. And it’s not always easy having to find a middle ground. It’s not always easy trying to meet the other half way. You aren’t always going to agree on everything – and you always have to be able to address the conflicts that you have with one another.

However, it’s always important for you to understand that there is a time and place for everything. You aren’t always going to be able to fight with your partner whenever you want and expect good things to come out of it. Also, not every battle is worth fighting over. Sometimes, there are just some things that you need to let go of. You don’t have to engage in every war. If you feel comfortable with losing a battle every once in a while, then do so. There’s no need for unnecessary friction in the relationship.

Don’t be so secretive about your needs.

There are a few times wherein we enter a long-term relationship and we get so tangled up in it all. We get so caught up in the idea of loving another person more than we love ourselves to the point that we end up disregarding our own needs and desires. We make so many concessions. We make so many compromises. We give up so many things for the sake of this love.

And you might feel like that’s an incredibly noble thing to do. You might think that you are doing your relationship a major favor. But here’s what you need to understand: you shouldn’t always be putting another person’s needs above your own. If you keep putting yourself second, you are diminishing your own dignity. You are breeding resentment within your own relationship and you are going to end up suffering for it.

Of course, it isn’t likely that the two of you are going to have the exact same outlook and expectations in love and relationships. And that’s okay. It’s all about being able to strike a balance. You both need to find a way to make one another happy. You both need to be able to maintain an open mind and an open heart at all times.

9 Signs Your Partner Is Going To Stay Loyal To You Even When They’ve Cheated In The Past

9 Signs Your Partner Is Going To Stay Loyal To You Even When They’ve Cheated In The Past
9 Signs Your Partner Is Going To Stay Loyal To You Even When They’ve Cheated In The Past

 

 

When they say, “once a cheater, always a cheater”, is there some real truth behind it? If you know that your partner has had a history of cheating, is it likely that they’re still going to cheat on you in the future? It’s okay to have these fears. It’s okay to have these worries. Of course, you want to be looking out for yourself. And to be cheated on twice in the same relationship is just downright despicable and heart-wrenching. Or what if your partner has cheated on another girl in a previous relationship? Does that mean that there is cause for worry on your part? Are they likely to carry their unfaithful ways into your own relationship as well? Are they going to be doing some shady stuff behind your back too?

Well, if you’re looking for a definitive answer, you have to know that you’re not going to get one. You’re just never going to be able to know for sure. That’s the essence of human nature. Because of free will and independent thought, you never really know how people are going to be when they’re around you. You never know how a person is going to treat you. The truth is that a person who has cheated in a relationship once before can cheat again. However, the same can also be said for people who have never cheated in their lives. It’s also plausible that people who have always been faithful will cheat on their partners. So whatever the case, you are taking a risk. You are taking a chance on whoever you get into a relationship with. The possibility of infidelity is always going to be present in any kind of relationship. All relationships are unpredictable. You can’t always expect things to turn out the way that you plan them. It’s all about being able to weigh the risks and the benefits. However, the nature of these risks is that they are unpredictable. There are just so many variables that go into making a relationship work, and there are so many factors that can drive someone to cheat in a relationship.

So, you don’t necessarily have to feel down about dating someone who has cheated in the past. Remember that a person’s past alone is not enough to define who they have become and who they are going to be. Someone who has a history of cheating doesn’t automatically indicate that that person is going to cheat in the future. And if you’re looking for more peace of mind, then you’ve arrived at the right article. If your partner has cheated in the past but exhibits a lot of the signs listed here, it’s likely that they aren’t going to cheat on you in the future.

1. They come clean about every mistake they’ve made in past relationships.

They really stay honest with you about the shortcomings that they have had in the past. They don’t try to hide anything from you. They stay as open and as genuine as possible.

2. They fully understand what led them to cheat in the first place.

They have really put a lot of thought into the case of cheating, and it’s because they really wanted to get to the root of the problem.

3. They are open to going to therapy.

They are humble enough to acknowledge that they have done something wrong in the past; and that they’re going to need help to become a better person in the future.

4. They show a genuine desire to improve themselves this time.

They are very sincere about the fact that they screwed up, and they want to do whatever it takes to make sure that they are better this time around.

5. They don’t place the blame on anyone other than themselves.

They are mature enough to take ownership of their past mistakes in relationships. They don’t pass the blame onto anyone else.

6. They are open and honest about everything in their life.

They don’t engage in lying and dishonesty anymore. They know that it should be pure honesty from here on out if they want things to work in future relationships. they know that they really need to be honest to earn a person’s trust.

7. They don’t shy away from having difficult conversations.

They are comfortable with having uncomfortable discussions. They know that these difficult conversations are necessary for growth and development.

8. They allow themselves to be vulnerable.

They understand that they can’t keep on keeping their distance anymore. They can’t keep on maintaining a cold front. They have to open themselves up and make themselves more vulnerable.

9. They take an active role in building your relationship.

They’re not leaving anything up to chance anymore. They aren’t taking a passive approach to your relationship. They aren’t standing on the sidelines. They really put in the effort for the sake of your love.

Only A Cancer Will Understand These 5 Things

Only A Cancer Will Understand These 5 Things
Only A Cancer Will Understand These 5 Things

 

 

Cancers are one of the most enigmatic signs of the Zodiac.  Cancers are ruled by the moon and that fact alone makes them mysterious.

People born under this sign tend to be very sensitive and caring, but, at the same time, they can also be moody and prone to jealousy.

The Cancer symbol is a crab, so you would think that Cancers would be insensitive and tough.

But, in reality, they are soft and very sensitive on the inside, which makes them unique.

Cancers, like the moon they are ruled by, tend to undergo different phases when it comes to life experiences and the emotions that go along with them.

So, as you can imagine, Cancers are very complex people and, as such, difficult to understand at times.

Below are 5 things that only Cancers will understand about themselves.

1. Home sweet home

Cancers are homebodies and would rather be at home than anywhere else, which can be difficult for friends and family to understand.

A cancer’s worst nightmare is being dragged to a huge party or event, and they will make up any excuse they can think of to not have to go.  Cancers very much prefer a small gathering (at home, of course).

2. They have little to no patience

Telling a Cancer to be patient is like telling a hungry lion not to eat that steak sitting in front of them.  It’s impossible.

Patience is something that a Cancer neither has nor understands.  If they want something, they have to have it now.  If they need to tell you something, it can’t wait….ever.

3. They are extremely sensitive

Unlike the hard shell of the crab, Cancers are one of the softest, most sensitive signs in the Zodiac.

Any criticism, no matter how well-meaning, will go straight to their heart and they will wind up in a puddle on the floor.

So, tread very lightly if you need to criticize them in some way.

4. Cancers are very loyal, but trust does not come easily

 

If a Cancer has chosen you to be their friend, consider yourself very lucky.  They will be one of the most loyal, loving friends you will ever have.

But, don’t expect them to call you “friend” right away.  Trust has to be earned, and that will take some time.

5. Love is what makes them happy

 

As I mentioned above, Cancers are very sensitive and will hold on to the hurt of a breakup for a long time.

But, they also have a huge amount of love to give and are excellent at maintaining a long-term relationship.

The love that Cancer has for their few close friends and family is the bond that holds their fragile shell together, which is something you’ll only understand if you’re a Cancer.

Which Sin Represents You? (Based On Your Zodiac Sign)

Which Sin Represents You? (Based On Your Zodiac Sign)
Which Sin Represents You? (Based On Your Zodiac Sign)

 

 

 

Just like all human beings, the zodiac signs have a light and a dark side. They aren’t simple or basic things, rather very complex and complicated at the core. The stars can tell us which sin we are most represented by, which allows us to explore our dark side and learn about ourselves.

Aries, 3/21 – 4/19

 

Your sin is murder.

The people who know you probably wouldn’t be surprised to hear this, since your temper and passions can flare to epic proportions in a matter of seconds sometimes.

You struggle to control your rage and you aren’t quick to let go of a grudge. You need to learn how to let go and move forward instead of immediately going to a place of anger and vengeance in reaction to being slighted.

Taurus, 4/20 – 5/20

 

Your sin is gluttony.

You have a habit of taking far more than  you need. Impulse control is not exactly one of your strong suits.

You need to practice moderation in your life, before your over indulgent tendencies push everyone you care about away from you.

Gemini, 5/21 – 6/20

 

Your sin is dishonesty. You tell lies like they’re on a going out of business sale.

Whether it’s a part of your social flattery and manipulation, or maybe just an effort to make yourself look good, you weave impressive and complicated webs with your words.

You best watch out though, you’re bound to eventually lose track of your tall tales or even lose the ability to distinguish lies from reality yourself.

Cancer, 6/21 – 7/22

 

Your sin is the worship of false idols. You get way too obsessed with meaningless and material people and things.

Who cares about the latest celebrity divorce or which designer some actress is putting on her toddler for playdates?

You need to refocus on your own life and behavior. Stop trying to emulate people you’ll never meet who don’t have any substance anyway.

Leo, 7/23 – 8/22

Your sin is pride. The sheer enormity of your ego is impressive, to say the least.

Even when you do something that helps someone else, it’s only because you want to build an illusion of selflessness and inflate your ego even more.

You work so hard to keep up the image, you might as well just put all of that effort into actually helping others for once.

Virgo, 8/23 – 9/22

 

Your sin is envy.

It doesn’t seem to matter how well your life is going, how financially or socially blessed you are, or how nice all of your things are, you always want something else.

You’re constantly chasing after this intangible thing that you only desire because it isn’t yours.

Here’s a tip; stop comparing your life to others. Appreciate what you’ve got, or you’ll lose yourself completely in the desperate chase for something more.

Libra, 9/23 – 10/23

Your sin is vanity.

While there’s nothing wrong with having self love or simply being beautiful, you take the concept to a whole new level.

It’s surprising you ever make it out of the house considering you spend so many hours in front of the mirror just primping and preening.

You’re so into yourself you hardly notice that there’s a whole wide world around you to be enjoyed and experienced. Don’t be so distracted by the mirror that your life passes you by.

Scorpio, 10/24 – 11/21

Your sin is lust. You simply can’t restrain yourself when you see something/someone you want.

Your desire is more powerful than you know what to do with. Indulging in your carnal passions may be fun at first, but it is an empty and exhaustive way to live your life longterm.

Not everyone needs to be seduced into liking you, try forming some meaningful platonic relationships, you might learn something about yourself in the process.

Sagittarius, 11/22 – 12/21

Your sin is adultery.

You might enter into a relationship with good intentions and high hopes, but it doesn’t take long for you to get distracted and stray.

You’re perfectly aware of your unfaithful tendencies, yet you hide them from the object of your affection, not wanting to be called out or confronted with your weaknesses.

Work on being honest and transparent, find someone who can love you even with all of your commitment and boredom issues.

Capricorn, 12/22 – 1/19

Your sin is greed. There is no limit to your dissatisfaction.

It doesn’t matter how much you’ve got, it will never be enough for you to be content.

You have this idea in your head that you’re somehow entitled to anything and everything, but there’s just no evidence to support that being true.

You don’t deserve everything just because you desire it.

Aquarius, 1/20 – 2/18

 

Your sin is that of being a false prophet.

Everyone wants to feel special, but when you’ve got leadership qualities, you should find a positive and beneficial way to use them rather than hoarding praise and admiration from followers.

You have a way with words and a talent for persuasion, you could do amazing things with it, or you could selfishly use it to serve your own ego. It’s up to you.

Pisces, 2/19 – 3/20

 

Your sin is sloth. Rather than exert energy into living a good life, you spend it lazing about and barely skating by on the minimum amount of effort.

You can’t be bothered to get out of bed a minute early, not for a friend or loved one, not for a once in a lifetime event and certainly not for something as simple as a great job or higher education.