A Definitive Ranking Of Zodiac Signs On How They Get Over Being Dumped From Best To Worst

Libra

As a Libra, you are known to handle breakups and heartaches very well. Your fall from grace is always done with such poise and class that a lot of people will have a difficult time feeling sorry for you. They will think that you’re fine and that you won’t need consoling. You are typically a very peaceful person and so you always like to maintain peace even during breakups. You never like to harbor ill feelings or bitterness

Aries

You aren’t known to beat around the bush and that works to your advantage. You value absolute honesty and frankness. You don’t like it when you discover that people are lying to you just to protect your feelings. That’s why breakups are relatively easy for you. You would rather that your partner be upfront about being unhappy in a relationship with you so that you can go your separate ways.

Aquarius

An Aquarius tends to withdraw into seclusion after a difficult breakup. You will just take that time to reflect and find yourself before you can be okay again but it typically doesn’t take you too long. You are very cerebral and so you won’t take breakups too personally especially if the reasons are justifiable. It would be easy for you to move on because of the sheer power of your brain. 


Sagittarius

A Sagittarius is very much known to have a sound mind and peaceful heart. They don’t grieve too much over spilled milk, but they don’t forget heartbreaking experiences so easily either. The thought of what ifs and could have beens will always plague their mind even though they won’t necessarily show it. They also tend to be less trusting of people the more that they get heartbroken.

Gemini

You know that you are really good at hiding your feelings and so people don’t really notice whether you are hurting or not on the inside after a broken relationship. But then, underneath all of the facades that you’re putting up, there is a lot of pain and disappointment. You don’t particularly like to talk about your feelings because it upsets you and so no one really knows how you’re feeling.

Scorpio

You tend to be a very guarded and closed-off person. You don’t like to open yourself up a lot because you’re afraid of getting hurt. And so you will try to distance yourself from people a lot. But when you do fall in love and it fails, then it breaks you completely. When you get heartbroken, you become even more introverted and antisocial than were at the start. 


Virgo

A Virgo is always going to want full control of everything. you don’t adapt well to any unexpected circumstances. You always like for things to go your way and you spiral into madness whenever disruptions arise. So whenever you get broken up with, you become very disoriented. You will start to replay the entire relationship in your head to try to figure out where things went wrong.

Capricorn

Capricorns are a lot like Scorpios after a disappointing breakup. You will withdraw into your own seclusion and you will shut yourself off from people. You will only choose to confide in the people you can genuinely trust, and that’s a very small circle of people. You weren’t realy trusting of many people at the start and the breakup didn’t help at all.

Taurus

A Taurus is vindictive. The moment someone breaks up with you, you will immediately turn into the most bitter person on earth. You will delete your ex from your phone. You will block that person from your Facebook feed. And you will make sure to make that person feel utmost coldness and indifference even though deep down inside, the flames of your pain are burning like wildfire.


Cancer

You will have an internal struggle and that may drive you to do crazy things. For one, you want to be acting all cold and distant as if you are unaffected by the breakup. But on the other hand, you want so desperately to get your ex back and you won’t know what to do with yourself. You might just go insane. 

Leo

Understandably enough, you don’t handle breakups well because of your pride. You don’t like to be blindsided. You will see it as a big affront to your ego and so you will start lying to people. You will tell them that the breakup was something you saw coming and that you were only beat to the punch. You might even resort to telling people that your ex was crazy.

Pisces

You are the absolute worst person to break up with because you go crazy. You just plain lose it. You let your emotions get the best of you and you end up acting very uncharacteristically and illogically. You are the type of person who will resort to passive aggressive commentary on your social media profiles and all of them are targeting your ex. You don’t care about your pride or your dignity when you’re going through a breakup and that’s downright scary. 

What The Last Quarter Of 2018 Will Be Like For You Based On Your Zodiac Sign

Aries (March 21 April 19)

You are currently in somewhat of a crossroads. You know that there is some sort of internal debate going on within you and it’s really weighing you down. Deep inside your heart, you want to just let go of a very important person, and yet, another part of you feels like you should still give things another try. But really, you just have to be real for yourself and do what’s best for you. 

Taurus (April 20 May 21)

You’re fairly uncertain about what you’re doing with your life and that’s okay. You shouldn’t feel so bad that you can’t seem to commit to the path that you’re on. You’re just so used to being sure about what you want and that’s why this can seem very disorienting for you. But that’s fine. You just have to be patient and trust that things will start to reveal themselves to you as you go along. 

Gemini (May 22 June 21)

Your year has been quite eventful so far. You have had your ups and downs. You’ve gone through some pretty radical changes both for the better and the worse. You have made some very significant life choices and you’re not entirely sure if they’re the right ones. You just have to wait and see; trust in yourself and be confident in your judgement. 


Cancer (June 22 July 22)

Let’s face the truth. 2017 just hasn’t been your year. You don’t know how you have managed to last this long quite frankly. You think that you deserve a medal just for still existing at this moment. And that’s okay. All of your struggles and hardships are going to pass eventually. You just have to stay true to yourself and be optimistic. The best things are still to come. 

Leo (July 23 August 22)

This hasn’t been a really good year for you as far as dating and relationships are concerned and it’s your own fault really. You have been acting really hesitant when it comes to love and it feels like you’re not ready for it just yet. That’s fine. You can take the course of the year to just focus on the one person you love most in this world: yourself. 

Virgo (August 23 September 22)

You have just gone up the ladder in your career and you’re afraid of the new responsibilities that come along with your new move. You’ve been really killing it at work and your higher-ups are really taking notice of all the hard work that you’ve been putting in. While the future can seem intimidating, you don’t have to worry. Just maintain your work ethic, and you’ll be fine. 


Libra (September 23 October 22)

You’ve been in deep pain and the worst part is that you don’t really want to talk about it. You don’t like to open up to other people because you don’t want them to know about your emotional vulnerability. You seem to be under the illusion that love from another person is what is going to heal you. Maybe you should focus more on finding love elsewhere like your favorite hobbies and passions. 

Scorpio (October 23 November 22)

People always turn to you for advice because of your inherent wisdom. It has been that way for yours and 2017 hasn’t been any different. You always make the right decision because you always opt for the safe choices. But towards the end of 2017, you’re going to meet someone who is going to make you want to act uncharacteristically and take a few risks. 

Sagittarius (November 23 December 21)

You just can’t seem to let go of that old flame. It’s been like this for you for a very long time now. But now that 2017 is drawing to a close, you’re going to have to just release all of those feelings. You have to understand that you can’t bring the past along with you to the future. 


Capricorn (December 22 January 20)

You have found love and that’s to be expected because of your naturally loving and kindhearted soul. You are a gentle creature and you are always looking to spread the love around. But as 2017 is nearing its end, you and your partner will be presented with a little obstacle that will test the limits of your relationship. Just make sure to stay strong and communicate often. 

Aquarius (January 21 February 18)

Something from the past is going to creep up out of nowhere and haunt you for the rest of 2017. That person could either be someone you have had a failed romantic history with or a friend with whom you may have gotten into an argument. You have to learn how to traverse this stressful situation well.

Pisces (February 19 March 20)

Things are looking up for you towards the end of 2017. You are finally going to be able to let go of all the baggage and pain that you’ve been carrying with you for a long period of time. You will have a renewed outlook on life and you’re going to love it. 

What You Need To Do To Get Over Someone Based On Your Zodiac Sign

Aries (March 21 April 19)

Just go ahead and take a deep dive back into your career. You can use your work as a way to distract you from your pain. Or better yet, you can channel all of your anger and disappointment into something positive. Make the most out of your unfortunate situation by maximizing your time and your effort at your job. Use success at work as a motivator for you to find meaning and happiness. 

Taurus (April 20 May 21)

The best way for you to move on from a bad breakup is to just look inside of yourself. You have to start being introspective because the relief that you are looking for can be found inside of you all along. You are a very strong and independent person and your self-worth isn’t defined by whether or not you are in a relationship with someone. Just remember that and you’re going to be fine.

Gemini (May 22 June 21)

What’s the point of having friends if you can’t turn to them during the most difficult times of your life? The best way for you to get over a harsh breakup with someone you loved is by turning to your friends for support. Find joy and solace in the fact that you still have a solid group of people who genuinely care about you and who love you unconditionally.


Cancer (June 22 July 22)

You have to go back to your comfort zone for you to really heal and recuperate. And where exactly is your comfort zone? It’s in solitude. You want to isolate yourself from everyone. You need to take a lot of time for yourself to just heal and be okay again. You can’t do this by surrounding yourself while other people keep distracting you. 

Leo (July 23 August 22)

The best way for you to get over a breakup is to just seek validation from other people. Yes, while others may say that this is an unhealthy way to go about building your confidence, you don’t really care. It’s what works for you. You know that you have a great personality and that there are people out there who are willing to show appreciation for your existence. 

Virgo (August 23 September 22)

You can mostly rely on yourself to get out of the relationship hole that you’ve been left in. You just love yourself too much to allow yourself to wallow in a pool of sadness. As a Virgo, you are known to be quite smart and very pragmatic. You understand that relationships don’t always work out and you can come to terms with that fact fairly quickly.


Libra (September 23 October 22)

You’re a very slow Zodiac sign when it comes to recovering from a bad breakup. But at least you aren’t destructive or annoying. You just go about your ways as you normally would. Yes, you still feel the pain and the hurt. But you don’t let it affect you much. You just keep on doing your thing until eventually all of the negative feelings subside and vanish into oblivion.

Scorpio (October 23 November 22)

As weird as it sounds you use new or old relationships as a way to get over a failed relationship. Whenever you break up with someone, you immediately divert your attention to an old flame or a new target. That’s your best coping mechanism. And while it can be unhealthy for others, it’s what works for you and you’re going to have to make do with it. 

Sagittarius (November 23 December 21)

You just have to detach yourself from all things that are familiar to you before you can feel okay again. So that means you go away to an unfamiliar land and just immerse yourself there for a while. This also means that you disconnect yourself from the world. You just want to take this time to discover more about who you are and when you’re ready, you’ll go back to your normal life. 


Capricorn (December 22 January 20)

You go to the basic unit of love for most communities your family. You know you can always rely on your family to help you get back to normal. They are always there to help you find your way towards happiness and contentment. 

Aquarius (January 21 February 18)

You just have to immerse yourself in amazing artistic experiences and you will be okay. This art can take its shape in the form of music, poetry, literature, or visual presentations. Any piece of artistic genius will help heal your heart bit by bit until it becomes whole again. You are a lover and appreciator of the arts and they are always there to help heal you.

Pisces (February 19 March 20)

You just think about all of the free time and space that you have now that you’re single and you’ll be okay again. It doesn’t take much to help you get over a breakup. You enjoy living the single life and you enjoy this newfound liberation that you have when you end things with someone. 

A Definitive Ranking Of Flirters From Best To Worst Based On Your Zodiac Sign

Scorpio

You are the smoothest out of all the Zodiac signs. You are somehow able to hold a proper and stimulating discussion with just about anyone that you meet. You are a skilled conversationalist and people really genuinely like talking to you. You also know just how to keep people hooked by never revealing all your cards and keeping the most important parts of yourself a mystery. 

Virgo

As a Virgo, you have a grace about you that is very rare to find in people. You exude the kind of body language that is just naturally attractive, receptive, and comforting to be around. You know just the right moments of when to touch people and you know exactly where to touch them too. A simple rub of the arm and you will have people eating out of the palm of your hand.

Aries

You are very direct and a lot of people like that about you. As an Aries, you have no problems going after what you want. You never hesitate when it comes to flirting and that natural confidence really shows. You are also very good at underhandedly generating sexual tension between you and another person even when you are only meeting for the first time. 


Taurus

You tend to take a very traditional and methodical approach to flirting. Knowing that you are a Taurus, you tend to always befriend a person before you actually make your real moves on them. You are good at making people laugh because of your with and charisma. You also have this uncanny ability just to make anyone feel comfortable around you. 

Capricorn

You’re fairly good at flirting granted that it’s the right medium for you to do so. You aren’t an exceptionally good flirter when it comes to being around someone in person. However, you make up for it by being really good at texting with your phone. It’s not the best case scenario, but hey, it’s still something. At least you’re not completely horrible at flirting in general.

Leo

As much as you love to flirt, you’re just not very good at it. Granted that you are a Leo, you will always think that your skills are actually much more than they really are. You are known to be quite good looking but your confidence just totally blows things out of proportion. You tend to lose your cool whenever someone shows the slightest bit of indifference and disinterest.


Sagittarius

You are bad at flirting because you always go about it in the wrong way. As a Sagittarius, you think that the key to winning another person’s heart is to always act aloof, disinterested, and hard to get. That no longer works these days. You are the kind of person who thinks that replying late to text messages is a great way to flirt. It isn’t. It only makes you look sloppy. 

Cancer

You tend to be very shy, hesitant, and withdrawn and that’s why you are just terrible at dating. You never like to make the first move and you always tend to take a passive approach to flirting in general. No one really knows whether you’re interested in them because as a Cancer, you are always just stuck in the safety of your own little shell. 

Gemini

You just try too hard when it comes to flirting and people find you pathetic. They see that you are just trying to outdo yourself by putting on a show, and so they never really get to see who you really are inside. You always go about flirting a little too unnaturally, Gemini, and that’s why you are always struggling when it comes to getting people to become attracted to you. 


Pisces

You are a little bit of a klutz. As a Pisces, you are accident-prone and it carries over into your flirtatious efforts. You are a little bit of a rambler and you are prone to saying all of the wrong things in the middle of the conversation. You are the epitome of term word vomit because of the number of crazy things that just manage to escape your mouth. You have to learn how to be more selective of what you say.

Aquarius

Learn to control your feelings and your emotions. You don’t have to vomit out every single thing that you’re feeling at any given moment. You have to learn how to restrain yourself if you don’t want to come off as too strong or overeager. 

Libra

You are just too much of an overthinking machine and people can see the struggles that you have because they are plastered right on your face. As a Libra, you are known to be the kind of person who actually rehearses lines and conversations before a date. Stop doing that. You are coming off as really robotic and just plain downright weird. There is such a thing as being over-prepared and you are incredibly prone to it. 

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The Reason Why You’re Overly Sensitive Based On Your Zodiac Sign

Aries (March 21 April 19)

You are just too stubborn. You always like things to be done a certain way and you get overly sensitive whenever things don’t go according to plan. You also have a difficult time admitting that you’re wrong because you are always so invested in your particular way of thinking. You are unreceptive to the thoughts and opinions of others and you throw a fit whenever someone disagrees with you.

Taurus (April 20 May 21)

You have a very fragile ego. Even when someone is just joking around with you, you automatically see it as a personal attack on who you are as a human being. You don’t respond well to people who talk about you whether positively or negatively because you are always going to find something wrong with what they are saying. 

Gemini (May 22 June 21)

Well, basically, there are two sides to your personality because you are a Gemini. You tend to project a very fun, exuberant, and energetic personality most of the time. You attract a crowd of generally happy and optimistic. They like how you appear as shallow and superficial and you don’t drown them with your depth. But deep down inside, you are as deep and as emotional as they come and it’s because of your sensitive sense of pride. 

Cancer (June 22 July 22)

The reason you are so sensitive is because you are always stuck in the past. You are already a Cancer, and it’s difficult for you to come out of your shell as it is. You never like to put yourself out there and so you end up depriving yourself of a lot of opportunities. You are so worried about what the future will bring, and so you prefer to live in the past where you know it’s safe. 


Leo (July 23 August 22)

The aspect of your personality that you are most sensitive about is how other people perceive you. For you, how other people see you is always more important than how you see yourself. That is why whenever you know that someone has a negative perception of you, it bruises and damages your ego really hard. 

Virgo (August 23 September 22)

The reason for your oversensitivity is that you tend to keep a lot of feelings bottled up inside of you even though you don’t have the space for them. You never like to express yourself or channel your emotions into any other outlets, and so you are practically on the brink of collapse. The slightest comment will be enough to set you off. 

Libra (September 23 October 22)

Out of all the Zodiac signs, you deal with sensitivity the best because you don’t try to deny or hide it. You always bring your sensitivity out into the open and a lot of people are receptive of your honesty. In fact, they will admire you for it. You allow feelings to flow through you like a pipe and you are immediately okay after you let your emotions run their course. 

Scorpio (October 23 November 22)

You deep-seeded sensitivity is grounded in the idea that no one else just can’t seem to understand you. You are always generally upset because people see you as eccentric and weird. You want so much to fit in and so you get overly sensitive whenever people tell you that you’re not acting normal which is all the time. 


Sagittarius (November 23 December 21)

You are a generally strong person. You know this. Everyone knows this. But sometimes, there are a few people who just want to ruffle your edges by questioning your strength. This is what you are most sensitive about. You generally do a good job of keeping things together, but you hate it whenever people doubt just how strong you really are. 

Capricorn (December 22 January 20)

You are a complete basket case when it comes to insecurities. You have a lot of things to be sensitive about and it’s hard to pinpoint one specific thing. You tend to project a jokester’s image so as a way to deflect from the things that you are most insecure about. But it often backfires on you and you end up bringing yourself down. 

Aquarius (January 21 February 18)

You are highly sensitive when it comes to your intelligence. You don’t ever like being called stupid or dumb. Of course, people know that you are a smart person. They know that you are capable of great intellectual feats. But you always feel the need to prove yourself. You screw up every once in a while like all human beings do, and you always take it really badly. 

Pisces (February 19 March 20)

As ironic as it sounds, you are very sensitive about how emotional you are. People know you as the one who has lots of feelings and for good reason. But still, you refuse to accept that you are always the overemotional one in the group and you are highly sensitive of that fact. 

How You Act After A Breakup Based On Your Zodiac Sign

In this scenario, the think before you jump idiom is some good advice to heed. Particularly when you’re thinking about jumping into bed with someone. Sure, it can be tough to deprive yourself of a fun night in the bedroom with someone you’re deeply attracted to. But of course, you also want to make sure that anytime you’re giving anyone the pleasure of physical intimacy, you are getting a lot out of it in return. Unfortunately, that is not always going to be the case. Not all nights of passion with another person are always going to be incredibly memorable. In fact, a lot of them are just going to be awkward, weird, and just plain boring.

1. Aries (March 21 April 19)

There’s just no way to rationalize what you intend to do after a breakup with someone. Maybe it’s because you’re a little vindictive and you like to inflict pain on those who have hurt you in the past but that still doesn’t justify this kind of behavior. When you are broken up with you have this deep urge to sleep with your ex’s best friend or close family members.

2. Taurus (April 20 May 21)

Out of all the Zodiac signs, you have perhaps one of the most constructive means of coping with a breakup. You take up some kind of poetry, writing, or literary expression as a form of release for your feelings and emotions. You don’t want to get in anyone else’s way when you’re expressing yourself and so you just turn to pen and paper instead.

3. Gemini (May 22 June 21)

You turn into a complete gossipmonger whenever you break up with someone. You start to spread rumors, whether true or false, about your ex in an effort to make yourself look good after a breakup. You tend to see breakups as a competition, and you think that spreading rumors about your ex can put you ahead of the game. However, it always backfires and you just come off looking pathetic.

4. Cancer (June 22 July 22)

Typically, you refuse to get out of your shell. However, when you do fall in love with someone, then you slowly get a taste of what it’s like to live life beyond your comfort zone. So when that person who brought you out breaks up with you, you become desperate. You don’t want to go back to your secluded and withdrawn life, and so you beg for the both of you to stay together even though things are practically over.

5. Leo (July 23 August 22)

Any kind of breakup is an affront on your pride as a Leo. You don’t want anyone in the world to see you as a failure. Your image is important to you. And that’s why you will try to shrug off the breakup as something that you planned. In fact, you will joke about it with your friends in a comical manner by calling your ex some really mean names.

6. Virgo (August 23 September 22)

It’s a total overhaul in life with you when it comes to dealing with a breakup. You see breakups as opportunities for you to start anew with a blank slate. This means that you have to go to the salon and get a new do. You hit the mall and just revamp your entire wardrobe. You might even take up a few new hobbies or make some very significant life and career changes.

7. Libra (September 23 October 22)

Usually, for you, it’s all about balance, peace and harmony. That’s what you are best known for as a Libra. However, when you are going through a breakup, all of that just goes right out the window. You start to overindulge and live life on the extremes. There is no such thing as moderation anymore. You will drown yourself in excesses in an effort to numb the pain.

8. Scorpio (October 23 November 22)

You take a very Eternal Sunshine Of The Spotless Mind kind of approach to dealing with your breakup. Any memory of your ex will be thrown out, burned, and forgotten. The best way for you to move on from someone is to forget about them completely. That’s why any memento that your ex leaves behind is going straight to the trash once they’re gone.

9. Sagittarius (November 23 December 21)

You have a wanderer’s soul and a traveler’s spirit. You have the curiosity of a cat. You long to explore and see the world for what it is. But when you are going through a breakup, everything’s different. You just choose to stay put and reflect deeply about how you are feeling and where you are at in life.

10. Capricorn (December 22 January 20)

You are somewhat vindictive as an ex, but you’re not necessarily very extreme with your means. You are also known to be quite theatrical and dramatic with how you live life. So you tend to deal with your breakups by gathering all of your ex’s items and returning them as some sort of grand gesture.

11. Aquarius (January 21 February 18)

You will hoard all of your ex’s friends. You will want them to believe that you just genuinely don’t want to let go of their friendship, but deep down inside, you want them to let your ex know just how amazing you are as a person. You want your ex to regret ever letting you go and you use your ex’s friends in the process.

12. Pisces (February 19 March 20)

You are probably the weirdest out of all the Zodiac signs. You are the type of ex who would draw up a fake social media profile just to stalk and catfish your ex. That’s not normal behavior and you need to seek help. You have to deal with your breakup in a more productive manner.

That’s why it’s important for you to pick your spots and only get with people who actually have the potential to make that night in the bedroom as memorable as can be. But how do you choose? Well, fortunately for you, the universe already has its answers. You can find what you’re looking for by looking to the Zodiac signs. Yes, the Zodiac signs have all the answers already laid out for you. You just have to make sure to avoid that one Zodiac partner and you’re sure to have some fun in the hay. So what Zodiac partner should you be avoiding? Read on to find out.

1 .Gemini

At first, you’re going to be led to believe that things are actually going pretty well. The Gemini is going to lay there and let you have all of the control. They are going to be passive and you’re going to be thinking that you’re doing everything absolutely right. You’re going to even gain some sense of confidence in what you’re doing. But then you start to realize that something is off. They are acting passive for a reason. They’re not taking control of the situation because they’re not really into it. Their mind is flying away and away to more interesting things. You realize that they are being passive because their brain is preoccupied with other thoughts WHILE having sex with you.

2. Cancer

There’s a lot of talking and communication involved with a Cancer even before anyone starts taking off their clothes. You think that that’s perfectly normal behavior, right? They will want to wine and dine you and get you into the mood with their words. You start to think that this is going to make for a very promising night. And so after all the talking, you start to strip to your bare essentials and you’re in bed together. You start to get it on, but then you realize, the Gemini just hasn’t stopped talking.

They are yapping and yapping away even while you’re doing it. And more than that, the Gemini is going to be talking about weird things like commitment, passion, and love even though you don’t know them too well.

3. Virgo

You know that one person you can never seem to please in bed no matter how hard you try? That’s probably a Virgo. They are the types of people who will have you doing all sorts of things in the bedroom just so they can be stimulated. They will literally have you bending over backwards in an effort to please them. But no matter what tricks you may have up your sleeve, nothing is going to be enough for them. They are always going to want more than what you have to offer. You will find better pleasure by finishing yourself of in this case.

4. Sagittarius

It’s kind of weird considering a Sagittarius is a fire sign, but they are still absolutely terrible in the bedroom. They are all good before the action starts. They are very skilled at seducing their partners and getting them to lower their defenses. You have probably tried being charmed by a Sagittarius before and it must have been very hard for you to resist just jumping them right then and there. But always try to show restraint with a Sagittarius. Because while they may be masters at the art of seduction, they are just plain horrible at the art of pleasure.

5. Capricorn

Always take a hard pass whenever you are being propositioned by a Capricorn. They are rarely ever going to be worth it. They’re horrible lovers because they’re the types of people who fantasize about other human beings while having sex with you. Yes, physically, they are being intimate with you, but they always find themselves imagining other people; living out their wildest fantasies. You never want to be used as an object in such a manner.

6. Pisces

The crying. The tears. That’s just too much to bear. You don’t want to have to be dealing with a sexual partner who is practically crying a river. But that’s what a Pisces is bringing to the table. So unless you’re willing to put up with that kind of basket case, it would be best for you to avoid a Pisces at all costs.

The 4 Zodiac Signs That Have Difficulty Accepting Heartbreak

They are playing that new Adele record virtually on repeat and it’s driving everyone around them nuts.

Okay. It’s understandable. There are very few things that are nice about getting your heartbroken. It’s a very traumatic ordeal and you would almost never want to wish it on your worst enemy. We have all had our brushes with heartbreak in some shape or form throughout the course of our lives. Maybe we used to be caught in a very long relationship with someone that ended abruptly. Perhaps you have found yourself crushing on someone for the longest time only to find out that that person has fallen in love with someone else. Or maybe you have a couple of friends who have had their hearts broken and you saw what it did to them.

There are just too many ways to count how a heart can break, and there’s no way anyone can stay immune from it. As human beings, we are all prone to heartbreak and none of us are protected. And when heartbreak comes at you, you are left feeling defenseless and disoriented. You don’t know what to do about it and you don’t know how to move on from it. You would think that it would be easier to deal with the more you’ve experienced it, but it doesn’t ever get any easier. It just gets harder and harder every single time. In the days of our youth, a lot of us both men and women alike are guilty of getting caught up in those romantic movies and fairytale stories. So we get a vague idea of what it means to fall in love and to become heartbroken.

But there is nothing in the world that could possibly prepare you for the kind of pain and anguish that heartbreak brings with it. Of course, you can expect to find solace in your friends and your family when heartbreak comes knocking but it’s never going to be enough. Not even all the chocolates, ice cream, and pizza in the world will be enough to help distract you from the pain that you’re feeling. Not even all the alcohol in your local bar will be enough to drown out all of the sorrows within you. Sometimes, pain just demands to be felt and that’s the kind of pain that comes with heartbreak. It demands to be felt. We all deal with this grief in our own very specific ways. Some of us handle it a lot better than others.

For those who are lucky enough, moving on and getting over doesn’t have to be complicated. For them, the act of moving on is a painstaking process, but it doesn’t always have to be an outrageously messy one. But for those who aren’t so lucky, dealing with heartbreak isn’t always going to be a simple process. As much as we all want to be okay in the end, it takes others a very long time before they are okay.

So who are these people exactly? Who are those who are so unlucky to not be able to bear the pain of heartbreak as well as others do? For the answer, you can turn to the Zodiac signs. There are some very specific Zodiac signs who just don’t deal with heartbreak well at all and here they are:

1. Aries

You are a very emotional person as is and these emotions intensify whenever you get heartbroken. As an Aries, you have a tendency to let your emotions get the best of you a lot of the time. Sometimes, negative feelings can even translate to violence on your part and you have to be careful when that happens.

2. Taurus

You do not deal with heartbreak well because you do not deal with sadness well. You are a very sensitive person despite your stubbornness as a Taurus. You easily get hurt, and when you do, it forever taints your view of the world and of human nature. Others call you overdramatic but it’s just the way that you are. You also tend to lash out at your friends and you make it difficult for anyone to help you.

3. Scorpio

More than anything else during a heartbreak, you are going to seek a sense of comfort and perfection in things that are familiar to you. And so you will start to resort back into your naturally controlling self. You hate it that the breakup was beyond your control, and so you will try to overcompensate by controlling other aspects of your life this can also mean you trying to control and manipulate your friends.

4. Capricorn

Like an Aries, you have much difficulty when it comes to trying to control your emotions. And the worst part is, you don’t care about anyone who gets caught in the cross hairs of your emotional outbreaks. You wouldn’t care how your coping mechanisms would impact the people around you because you are too engrossed in your own sadness to be thinking of others.

This Is How You Scare Away Your True Love Based On Your Zodiac Sign

Aries (March 21 April 19)

Just learn to commit! You scare the loves of your life away too easily because of your unwillingness to commit to them. You are always too frightened to get into anything that resembles a state of consistency and steadiness. You want spontaneity and pandemonium all the time. You are always looking to shake things up, but relationships don’t always work that way. 

Taurus (April 20 May 21)

You have to learn how to be more adaptable and receptive of the ways of others. You can’t always be enforcing the it’s my way or no way at all kind of philosophy especially when it comes to love. This is how you frighten people off. You always dismiss them and their thoughts in favor of your own. You are not open enough to the ideas of others and so they don’t like being with you.

Gemini (May 22 June 21)

Your reluctance to open yourself up always ends up frightening a lot of potential romantic partners away. They have no idea if you’re some sort of secret pervert, serial killer, or kindhearted soul because you just refuse to open up about yourself. You need to learn how to let other people in if you don’t want to frighten them with your stoic demeanor. 


Cancer (June 22 July 22)

Learn to let some arguments go. You don’t always have to win every single argument or debate that you’re in. You have a feisty personality and you tend to never back down from others and that’s okay. But you really have a tendency to frighten other people with your overaggressive demeanor during arguments. You have to learn how to accept a loss every now and then. 

Leo (July 23 August 22)

Your need to control everything in your life and in the lives of others can be very intimidating to other people. You have to learn to relinquish control every once in a while if you really want to accommodate another person in your life. You can’t always be trying to manipulate others just to get your way. You have to understand by now that the universe doesn’t solely revolve around you.

Virgo (August 23 September 22)

You are a little bit of a perfectionist and that’s how you frighten away your potential love interests. You are always looking to make sure that your life is going on at an ideal state even when reality doesn’t permit it. You tend to lose your cool whenever things aren’t perfect or whenever your expectations aren’t being met and not many people can take that kind of pressure. 


Libra (September 23 October 22)

Like an Aries, you have a tendency to give off the vibe that you’re not ready to commit. But it’s for very different reasons. You are a social creature and you always like to make sure that you are friends with everyone. But with potential mates, it just comes off like you are a very big flirt who can’t seem to commit to a single person for a long time. 

Scorpio (October 23 November 22)

You are kind of vindictive and that intimidates people. In a lot of relationships, arguments and screw-ups are inevitable. But normally, couples are able to find a resolution and move on from these points of conflict. For you, it’s different. You hold a vendetta for people who have wronged you and it makes you really scare to be with. 

Sagittarius (November 23 December 21)

You have a very free spirit and you value your independence. You are also inherently impulsive, and you don’t really put much thought into your actions. It’s just the way you are. And because of this, a lot of people will be frightened. They think you come off as someone who is insincere and just downright reckless. 


Capricorn (December 22 January 20)

You tend to take a very pessimistic and cynical view of the world so you’re not exactly a joy to be around. Typically, people tend to be attracted to rays of sunshine, but you keep on acting like you’re a heavy rain cloud that’s just ready to release. You have to learn to lighten up if you want people to stop being afraid of you.

Aquarius (January 21 February 18)

You just look very guarded and withdrawn. You don’t look approachable and so people never like to approach you. You seem to have put up so many walls around you as a defense mechanism and so people are perpetually afraid of getting close to you. 

Pisces (February 19 March 20)

You are the virtual opposite of the Capricorn. While they need to lighten up a little bit, you are the one who needs to dial things back a notch. You are always way up there with your positivity and your energy, it can be difficult for people to keep up with you. Your limitless optimism frightens off a lot of people they dnt scare. 

A Ranking Of Zodiac Signs Based On How Long It Takes You To Get Over A Breakup

1. Leo

As far as speed is concerned, it doesn’t take a Leo too long to get over a breakup. You just find it impractical to let sadness consume your soul. You don’t like being immobile and passive. You don’t like being idle at all and that’s why you just always choose to get over a breakup fairly quickly. Sure, a lot of people will call you insensitive, but you don’t really care. You just keep on carrying on the way that you do.

2. Sagittarius

While you’re not as quick as a Leo, you still tend to get over your breakups fairly quickly. As a Sagittarius, you don’t like to wallow in your pain for too long. Yes, you will allow yourself ample time to grieve and feel sad. But that doesn’t really take too long. Once you get it all out of your system, you have a renewed perspective on life and you’re ready to face the world again.

3. Aries

You have a great method of moving on that allows you to do it in a quick manner. You just drown yourself in physical or mental activities. It’s either you fully engross yourself with your work or you go out and run a lot of errands for yourself. You just like to keep yourself moving to distract you from everything that you’re feeling and it works for the most part.

4. Pisces

You also find it relatively easy to move on because you are perfectly okay with being open about your emotions. A lot of people will keep their feelings bottled up inside and that’s why they have a hard time moving on. But as a Pisces, you are always looking to talk about your feelings so you can come to terms with them.

5. Capricorn

You approach the process of moving on and getting over very methodically and analytically. That’s why it doesn’t really take you a whole lot of time to get over the grieving process. You have very strong brainpower and you can always will yourself to always see that the future is still bright no matter how sad you may be feeling at the moment.

6. Cancer

You’re right in the middle of the pack when it comes to moving on. You’re not exactly the slowest, but you’re not the fastest either. That’s not necessarily a bad thing. Usually, people would think that it would take a Cancer forever to move on from a breakup. You tend to be very emotional but you always use that fact to your advantage. You aren’t afraid of facing your true feelings and that’s why you can move on fairly easier than some others.

7. Libra

You always feel a little lost and disoriented whenever you go through a breakup. You are so used to surrounding yourself with people who love you and so it can be very overwhelming when you are left to deal with your hurt feelings on your own. Eventually, you will find solace and comfort in your many friends, but solitude will be tough for you to overcome.

8. Virgo

Stop blaming yourself for the breakup. Your humility is your own greatest barrier to you eventually moving on from your failed romance. You have to understand that not everything is going to be your fault. You have to learn how to forgive yourself easily and accept that sometimes, life doesn’t work out the way that you want it to.

9. Gemini

You just need to be honest about your feelings when you’re talking to other people. You are just putting so much effort into trying to put on a brave face, you end up feeling tired and overwhelmed over time. It’s an inefficient way for you to move on from a breakup if you keep on acting like you are okay even though you are clearly not. People can see right through your charade.

10. Aquarius

You try to act aloof to your negative emotions even though they are eating you up inside. You have actually believed this lie that you’ve concocted for yourself. You like to think that you can shut your emotions off with a simple flick of the switch and I doesn’t work like that. You think that you’re okay, but your heavy feelings are still there inside of you unaddressed.

11. Scorpio

You withdraw into your own little fortress whenever you get heartbroken and that’s not a good sign. It’s not an effective method of trying to get over a breakup because it just doesn’t work for your personality. You shut people off even though what you need to do is to welcome them into your life; allow them to help you. It’s a struggle for you to realize this and that’s why it takes you so long to move on.

12. Taurus

You are a passionate person and that’s why it takes you the longest to move on from a failed romance. You are always looking for ways to channel all the love and passion that you have for a person. That’s why when you lose your platform to love, you don’t know what to do with yourself. You get lost, and it takes you quite a while to get things back on track.

What You Need to Learn To Mature Into A Better Human Being Based On Your Zodiac Sign

Aries (March 21 April 19)

You are quite known to really suppress your emotions and keep them locked up inside your system. But you have to understand that that is a very unhealthy way of dealing with their feelings. Just because you choose to ignore them doesn’t mean they don’t exist. In order for you to mature, you have to learn how to face your feelings and emotions; tackle them head on.

Taurus (April 20 May 21)

You are the sorest of all the losers. You don’t know how to lose with grace and that’s something you really need to work on. To add to that, you hate it when people call you out on your weaknesses. You hate it whenever people criticize you even when the criticism is justified and constructive. You have to learn to be more tolerant of the opinions of others especially when these opinions concern you.

Gemini (May 22 June 21)

You are a little bit of a control freak, and you always have been. As a Gemini, you tend to get severely disoriented and paralyzed whenever things don’t go according to plan. That’s why in order for you to really mature, you have to learn how to be more adaptable. You have to accept that you won’t always have full control of a situation, and you will need to adjust on the fly.


Cancer (June 22 July 22)

Stop staying too attached to the past. Knowing that you are a Cancer, you have great tendency to just stay stuck in the past a lot of the time. You are always nostalgic, and you keep trying to hold on to the best and happiest memories of your life. What you need to learn is that it’s most important for you to live in the present and always have an eye for the future.

Leo (July 23 August 22)

You believe a little too much in the power of your dreams. While it is good to be ambitious and driven, you should also have a sense of realism. That’s what you need to learn in order to mature as a Leo. You have to understand that life isn’t always going to turn out the way that you want it to and you’re going to have to be okay with that fact. 

Virgo (August 23 September 22)

As a Virgo, you are known to be quite emotional, but despite that, you never like allowing yourself to be weak in front of your peers. You never want to make your weaknesses known to the world because you always want to portray yourself as a strong and perfect being. This pressure is too much for anyone to bear and you’re going to have to learn that it’s okay for you to be weak in front of others sometimes.


Libra (September 23 October 22)

Like a Taurus, you have a great tendency to be incredibly stubborn. You are always quick to pass the blame on other people whenever things go wrong. You never like to assume responsibility for your shortcomings and that’s one thing you’re going to have to fix if you want to be considered as a mature adult. You have to start taking full ownership of your life. 

Scorpio (October 23 November 22)

You’re just never content with being yourself and that’s the most immature aspect of your personality. You are always wishing to be somebody else. In order for you to grow, you are going to have to learn to accept your personal limitations. You have to learn how to love yourself and work with what you’re given. 

Sagittarius (November 23 December 21)

You are a little too receptive of many different kinds of people. While generally, it pays off to be a genuinely nice person, it’s also a good idea to be a little more selective of your company. In order for you to mature, you have to really learn how to judge people better. Only associate with those who aren’t seeking to abuse, manipulate, or take advantage of you. 


Capricorn (December 22 January 20)

You are always looking at the downsides. That’s no way to live life. As a Capricorn, you bring a lot of negative energy and perspective around with you wherever you go. That’s something that you need to really fix as you move forward in life. You need to have a happier and more positive outlook as you get older.

Aquarius (January 21 February 18)

You have to learn how to be more independent. It’s as simple as that. Throughout your life, you have always somehow relied or depended on other people to get things done. If you really want to mature, you have to learn how to go about life on your own without having to depend on the assistance of others. 

Pisces (February 19 March 20)

Develop more confidence. Stop playing yourself down. Stop thinking that you are never enough. You have to be able to acknowledge your own self-worth. You can’t keep on thinking that you are just a useless speck in this world. Once you realize your great potential, then you can really tap into the fire that’s within yourself to succeed.